THE COST
The Cost!
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good you’re right
i’m so glad for you
you are right, and I am wrong
trust me
i hear your song
.
good you’re right
i’m so glad for you
let’s put your foot in the other shoe
.
when you’re right
you may feel on top
but what you don’t hear
is the other person’s thought
you are right and I am wrong
can be a very lonely song
.
I’m right I’m right
and you are wrong
you will look around and it won’t be long
you’ll have no one who cares
or anyone that can bare
.
how right you are
unwilling to bend
not looking at the outcome
not caring about a friend
.
i am feeling very sad for you
that you cannot see
the cost of being right for you
may be the loss of me
I wrote this poem in a moment of frustration. I felt that the communication about whatever we were discussing had turned from productive, to them, wanting to win.
Communication is one of the hardest things to master in life, and I am working on mine every day.
When you are in a disagreement or talking about something that is upsetting. Often it seems the conversation can turn to a win and lose situation. Instead of the other person listening to the deeper meaning, it feels like their only objective is to win. At this point, communication is lost, and progress is not being made. I am guilty of this myself at times. Now I truly see, if you look at communication as something that can be won, it is very hard to make progress on the subject at hand.